At 12 years old, my son Brennan started to feel pain he had never felt before. Suspecting it could be his appendix, we took him to our family doctor. He recommended that we take Brennan to the hospital to have him checked out.

After many tests, the doctors found a problem with his kidneys. Brennan was referred to a nephrologist and we were told that his kidney function was just 60 percent.  We were shocked.

Brennan was diagnosed with Focal Segmental Glomerulosclerosis or FSGS resulting in the eventual decline of his kidney function to a point where he needed dialysis. Although Brennan tired easily, he enjoyed life and was pushing himself to get involved and to savour every moment. 

We began the process for a living donor transplant. Knowing I was a blood match with Brennan, I knew I wanted to be the first to be tested, so I put my name forward right away. On March 12, 2020, I found out I was a match and a date was set for April for the transplant.  

Only a few days later, on March 14th, we received a call that the surgery needed to be postponed because of the pandemic. It was absolutely devastating. My son had just started dialysis and I was so excited that he would only require it for a few weeks. Brennan continued with peritoneal dialysis and we hoped for a call to reschedule the transplant.

Luckily, we got that call. Our surgeries took place in London, but at different hospitals on September 16, 2020. My surgery took place at University Hospital and Brennan’s was at Victoria Hospital. Knowing the transplant would take place during the pandemic added a whole new level of stress for our entire family.  Our worries were put at ease seeing how the hospitals and medical teams were working to keep us both safe.

We received an overwhelming amount of support from family and friends. Brennan’s positive outlook also helped us get through this entire process. Our surgeries went well and a few days later, we were able to reunite at home with each other. The most amazing moment was when I saw Brennan for the first-time post-transplant and was able to give him a hug. I was able to see how much healthier he looked and felt. It was an incredible moment for the both of us.

To those who are considering becoming a living donor, I highly recommend it. Not only is it life changing, but it is also the most rewarding thing I have ever done. The feeling of being able to give someone a second chance is such an incredible feeling.  

Brennan started high school in the fall and is full of energy looking for new adventures and activities to take on. He is an amazing kid and I'm so very proud of him.